You have found someone to text you on a fuck website or app and you want to have sex.
Imagine that you meet a girl. It was a great connection. You both exchanged numbers. This is a good step in the right direction.
Although one hurdle has been cleared, there are still obstacles to overcome in order to keep interest high until your next meeting.
This is because you can’t use body language or touch over the phone. You need to be able flirt without being too creepy. How can you keep interest levels high when the most attractive sexual tools are not available?
This article will give you tips and examples to help men send text messages that offer the best chance of having sex.
This is how it could be applied.
Let’s start with some tips to help you find an online friend or hookup.
The Interested and Interesting technique
A concept called “Interested & Interesting” is one of the best ways to attract sexual interest.
It works like this: You need to express interest in the text she sent you, and then you should reply with something.
This is the foundational idea, as every nuance or gimmick must generate interest to be successful. No interest = no sex.
Here are some examples:
She: How was your day?
Response: Excellent so far! I learned some new dance moves. I can’t wait for them to be mastered. What about yours?
She: What moves? I took dance lessons. I have always wanted to return.
Response: That’s awesome! They were taking twerking lessons. We should go. We should go.
Her: [Thinking about dancing with her] I’m open to a drink to watch your new moves.
Response: Great! Response: Great! Let’s get together this weekend. Saturday work?
It is clear from the examples that what is interesting is obvious, and that both of them were interested. Responder stated that they had “learned new dance moves.” This was the responders attempt to be interesting. They didn’t have anything to do with “how were your days?”
It is worth noting that dancing can be replaced by anything. Ask yourself if it is interesting to you as a filter for ideas.
Once you find something you are interested in, let us know. The girl had mentioned “dance lessons” and the responder expressed interest in the subject by saying “that’s amazing”.
This text dialogue is sexually appealing because it encourages you to look forward to a date and have a drink. It is a great way to show that dancing can be sexual if done properly.
Now you have maintained or generated interest in the Interested & Interesting method and can continue the seduction process when your meet up for a drink.
Now you are one step closer towards your sexual goals.
You may find it difficult to find something interesting to say. Here’s a more niche approach.
The Heartstring technique
The heartstring method is another fun way to move a conversation towards a sexual direction. The heartstring method aims to create a positive emotional response that does not have any sexual connotations. Here’s an example of the heartstring technique:
Her: What are you doing?
Response: Nothing.. cuddling with my dog right now. You?
Her: That is so adorable! Which breed of dog are you?
Response: [Send a picture of you cuddling your dog]. She is a lab mix. Are you a pet owner?
She: [Thinking about cuddling] That’s adorable! I wish I could. I would love to cuddle.
Cuddling can be either a prelude to sex, or something you do afterwards.
Cuddling is a sure way to bring back fond memories.
Cuddling will be a regular part of her day, and you can also create an emotional connection with the adorableness of your dog.
You can bond together if you have dogs.
If women believe they share similar interests, it makes it more likely for them to go on dates.
When you find commonalities, use it to set up a meeting.
Where can you meetup? To narrow down your options, you can use the technique below.
The Sexual Pathway technique
Did you know that electricity follows the path of least resistance.
An analogy for humans is to “work smarter not harder”. This principle should be used when planning the course for a date.
Ask yourself what situations lead to having sex. This question is not answered by porn movies with low budget.
You can either rely on friends’ case studies, recall your past successes, or use your intuition and intuition to find the best ways to flirt your way to sex.
To illustrate my point, let me compare two situations. Let’s suppose I invite a girl to Denny’s breakfast, or to an extravagant wedding. Which gives me the best chance of having sex?
It is more likely that the wedding will end in sex.
Here is an example date I set up.
Let me briefly describe how we met to give some context.
I was a bouncer in a bar. I was able to get a girl’s phone number but couldn’t seal the deal because I had to work one hour after closing.
I sent her this message that night:
Me: It was a pleasure to talk with you! I really liked her positive energy [her name]
I sent her another text with my name. Now she has my name and can tell me about the night we met.
A few days later, she received a text from me about a glow-in-the dark party I had been invited to. I explained to her that it is a party that takes place every year. I found it very helpful that the party featured a promotional video with good production value. This helped her sell it very well.
To top it all, I suggested that she try tacos at a Mexican restaurant with great margaritas. It also has a cozy atmosphere. Tacos are easy to prepare and can help ease any anxiety she may have about her first date.
The girl was invited to a fancy margarita at a bar and then to a party. This is a great idea for a young, sociable girl in her twenties.
After my invitation was accepted, I knew that my chances of sex were very high!
There are many paths to sex.
My chances of getting sex with her if I invited her to tea with my Grandma would be almost zero.
Conclusion
There are three things you need to keep in mind when looking at your phone screen, deciding how to send a message or how to reply.
#1 – What is the most interesting thing I can say? Did I show interest in anything she’s said so far?
#2 – What image can I send her in response to her text that will generate a positive emotional reaction
#3 – How do I set up a date that will give me the best chance of getting laid?
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